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Robert Steven Gilmer

November 17, 1961 ~ March 7, 2020 (age 58)


Robert Steven Gilmer, 58, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, passed away on Saturday, March 7th, 2020, in Tulsa. He was born to Cloyce B. and Catherine (Mead) Gilmer on November 17th, 1961, in Tulsa.

He was preceded in death by his parents; his sister, Carol Ann (Gilmer) Boles; and his brother, John Michael Gilmer.

Robert was a graduate of Phillips Seminary. He was an intelligent, well-read man. He attained a master’s degree, which he put to good use as a correctional guidance counselor, improving the futures of his clients. In his free time, Robert enjoyed discussing political matters and was an avid reader and filmgoer. He was also a devout and active member of his church community, attending several groups at Christ Methodist Church in Tulsa.

He is survived by his brother James Mead (and wife, Marilyn) Gilmer of Tulsa; his nephews, Charley Lee Boles, Michael Gilmer, and Sean Gilmer; and his nieces, LeAnne Simas, Jill Hamilton, and Angela Jobe. A host of friends also survive him.

A Graveside Service will be held Monday, March 16th, 2020 at Memorial Park Cemetery in Tulsa, Oklahoma.

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Graveside Service
March 16, 2020

2:00 PM
Memorial Park Cemetery
5111 S. Memorial Dr.
Tulsa, OK 74145

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